I was witnessing some behavior last night that bothered me a little bit. It was actually my friend talking to a girl. He was lying his ass off. A lot of guys do this, I don’t understand why. You have to realize that most people, especially women, will see right through this or will at least get a vibe of self-consciousness coming from you. You want to avoid lying at all costs. I’m not saying you have to answer every question they want with the cold hard embarrassing or incriminating facts. Be a politician, dance around the answer. It’s generally a good rule of thumb to be a little mysterious anyway, just don’t lie. If you feel the need to conceal information, then answer truthfully but just don’t give out the information you want to keep hidden. Who cares if the answer doesn’t exactly answer the question, but do try to make it as close as possible or at least change the subject to something that they have to respond to, otherwise you run the risk of being called out. Adopting this rule will make things greatly easier for you with women and in any other aspect of social life.
Jul 07
