Still a virgin? Who cares. You really can’t make a big deal out of this, but I know it is a big deal in some people’s minds. The first thing is to not make up lies telling all your friends you get laid all the time or tell them you could if you want but your religious, or whatever, I’ve heard them all. Being a virgin is not a bad thing. Admit to being a virgin when asked, be comfortable with it because, after all, you are a confident person and you are confident with yourself and the things you have done, right? The fact that you are more conservative sexually is a life choice that many make, and many wish they made later. Don’t act like something you are not by pretending to be a sexaholic in your spare time. But enough about that.
If you are a virgin, and you are worried that you will be a virgin for years to come, the first thing you have to do is just get over it. You will be much less stressed out around girls if you are not contently thinking about sex. I remember when I was a virgin, if I hooked up with a girl I’d be thinking “is this going to be the one?” the entire time. It must have distracted me or something, because all the girls I hooked up with while I was thinking that I did not end up having sex with. It was when I wasn’t thinking about it that I got my first lay (another example of winners not thinking). The key is not being self-conscience about it all the time. Admit to it, come to terms with it, embrace it, and forget about it. Go out and have fun. Don’t go out trying to get laid, if it happens it happens. If it doesn’t, then you had an awesome night anyway, so you won’t be thinking or caring about it.
