“Winners don’t think… they just do” is the statement that inspired me to make this website. There are many people who disagree with this statement and I look forward to seeing what people have to say about this.
My motto here is pretty much saying that whenever possible, I will use my aggressive gut instinct and take opportunities that may have the ordinary man second guessing. This was originally made to be applied to women but I think it can be used for so much more. Now, obviously, you cannot just blindly make decisions every time; that would be just ridiculous. But I have found that the majority of successful people, not just with women, make more gut decisions than the unsuccessful. They do so because they keep record of past events in the back of their minds and learn from the past. They are not so much making blind decisions as making quick decisions based on past experiences. These gut instincts will come out fast and there will be no second guessing, but if asked why they made such a decision they will most likely quote a situation similar to that which is on hand.
There is no doubt in my mind that this motto can and will bite you in the ass from time to time. But, it is more than likely that if you think about things to long, you could convince yourself not to do whatever it is that your were debating when the outcome could have been positive. Now, a couple questions immediately arise. How do I know that the outcome would have been positive? If you think about it long and hard about something, wouldn’t my decision be more logical in the end?
There are a lot of thing that just aren’t logical. I’m not saying you should gamble all your money away on a whim, I’m assuming you have the intuition to throw the truly stupid ideas out without any hesitation. But when faced with a true decision, usually the more aggressive decision will yield the results. Aggressive go getters have always been the top dogs in business and with women.
Someone Says: Would you like to go sky diving with me this weekend?
I am deathly afraid of heights, when will you pick me up?
Someone Says: I know just the girl for you, should I hook you two up?
That sounds great.
Someone Says: I take Ju-Jitsu classes, they’re awesome.
You think I can sign up?
The winner thinks: What should I do this weekend?
He ends up in Canada because that is what came to his mind.
The winner thinks: I’m going to go get that girl.
He does so; there are no doubts in his mind.
I realize these examples seem somewhat juvenile, but you have to look at it as a life style more than anything else. Life is collection of experiences, so have as many as you can. There is no time to fear. There is no time to care if that girl is going to shut you down or not. If you walk up there without thinking twice, she’ll probably be interested. Even if she isn’t, who gives a shit, honestly, walk it off and find another one, don’t read into it.
