Don't Think, Just Do

This is so much fun when you get the hang of it.  This is like productivity 101 when it comes to meeting women.  If you practice this, you will be able to see which women are interested without having to even be close to her!  Women who are not looking for someone, or who already have someone will not respond to this technique (unless they are unfaithful).  I’m not saying that if a woman does not respond to this that you can’t get a date out of her, I’m just saying you’ll have to work harder… yeah, I’m with you, let’s avoid that.

Alright, here is the scenario.  You are in a crowded bar, there is sure to be a woman you are attracted to there.  There is a good chance you are not going to be located right next to her, or you’d have already opened a dialog.  You’re still going to open a dialog, but you’re not going to use your words.  Use those eyes and a nice warm smile.  Let’s look at these in more depth.

• Eyes – Your eyes can smile.  Sounds weird, but it’s true.  Next time you see people give a genuine smile, notice their eyes.  The skin around their eyes smile and their eyes fill with joy.
• Smile – Again, watch people when they give a genuine smile.  It slowly comes in across their face building up to the maximum slowly and smoothly.

This is what you’re going to shoot to that pretty girl across the room.  Remember good posture as well, relaxed good posture.  You’re going to make some good eye contact, then give her that great smile and let those eyes tell her you think she is attractive.  A good way to do this is to think it in your head, and then your eyes will do it for you.  If you get some positive signs out of her, go over and strike up a conversation, if not, find a different one, you don’t want to be talking to a Debbie downer anyway.