I was introduced to the whole realm of “Pick-up Artists” when I read The Game written by Neil Strauss. I was intrigued by the fact that people actually studied how to get the one thing every man wanted out of them! I don’t care how many women you corral and domesticate nightly, everyone is interested in ways to pick more women up.
Exploring the realm of “Pick-Up Artists,” I found that there a very large number of men that have a very hard time with women! This kind of blew me away. So here I am. I want to help those men that are having trouble with women because women are fun! They are the most exciting part of my life. They present a challenge, a sort of game where you have infinite lives and infinite number of levels, tricks and puzzles to overcome. So if you are a man that happens to not like women (not that there’s anything wrong with that), this probably is not the place for you.
Now that I realize there are so many men who have trouble with women, I see them everywhere. I watch what they do (or don’t do), the mistakes they make and the dives they take. From my eyes, there are a few types of men who have trouble with women; it is usually a combination of the following:
Shy guys and nice guys are often one in the same, which is just an awful combination. I see that a combination of nervous and shy guys is the most popular guy out there.
In the next few days I will go over what these different types of guys entail and how to overcome these traits and become the man that nature intended you to be. Please leave me some feedback on what you think.
June 23rd, 2009 at 12:00 pm
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September 20th, 2009 at 5:57 pm
so, I have just realized I am a nice guy. f***.
now, i have no problem getting with women at all,
im not shy or nervous; im cool, but in the long run im too nice.
i know i got to stop being so nice and lay down some rules, but
guilt doesnt let me, i feel bad for being a dick. how can i do it with
a clean conscious?
September 20th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
I’m not advocating being a dick to women. I’m just saying don’t give and give if you’re not getting anything in return. Don’t feel obligated to go out of your way for a woman that wouldn’t do the same for you. I wrote this for guys that go out of their way for women and end up not getting them, so they end up wasting money and time. For example, I don’t buy drinks for women like a lot of men think to do. If I want to talk to her I do, and if we end up together then I know that I can start treating this woman more like a girlfriend. If a woman I just met is demanding things of me, I will almost always not do what she demands of me for two reasons. First, if I do end up with this girl, I don’t want our relationship to start out with her ordering me around. Second, it puts me in a position where I look like I’m below her, and that is not an attractive trait. But, even when I go into a more girlfriend phase with this girl, I’m not going to spoil her rotten. Don’t think that you need to give women fancy things, I think of that as bribing them in a way. Plus, they like thoughtful things anyway, which are usually reasonable. Let me know if this helps.