Approaching women is the toughest part of meeting women for most people; see my post on Fear of Rejection. But since you don’t have any more fears of rejection because you see now that it doesn’t matter in the slightest. Let’s see how to approach women in a way that won’t have their alarms going off having them immediately categorize you as someone who is trying to pick them up.
First of all, you can try the picking them up from a distance. But if you can’t seem to get any eye contact, we’ll have to go in. If you really want to go for it, you can walk straight up to her and look her dead in the eye, but you better bet she is going to think you are trying to pick her up so you better have your game on if you go down that path. My suggestion would be to get into a closer proximity to her and just kind of slowly get within talking range of her. This way you can make a remark about something in your surroundings and seem like an onlooker. This is a deadly tactic.
You don’t even have to strike up a conversation right away; you can comment and leave it for a bit. This technique works a lot better if you have a friend on the other side of you to talk to in the meantime; otherwise you run the risk of looking like a weird guy in general. Talking loudly with your friend so they can overhear what you are saying is also good stuff, there is always the chance that she, or if she is with a friend or two, bud into your conversation. Just make sure your conversation is something you want her to hear, no making up stories about how you had slain five girls the night before or anything. Then, when a lull comes over the conversation with your friend, randomly notice something about your surroundings and comment on it to her, or maybe ask her a quick question, doesn’t really matter, just make sure you’re looking in her eyes.
Approaching women is really not as difficult as many men think. In most cases, it doesn’t even matter so much what you say, just that you say something and you keep your eye contact, I cannot stress that enough. Once you say something to her you can pretty much just refer to the Conversation Model.
