Jun 23
This is key when it comes to women. If you seem like you are desperate, they will not be interested. You have to act in a way as if you could not give a care in the world about the women you are pursuing, as if you had hundreds more lined up, which is what they will be attracted to. Here are some guidelines to coming across as not desperate:
- Do not come on to strong – coming right out and showing her that you are very attracted to her right away will be showing her you are desperate. You want to just be chilled out at all times, especially about the fact that you are talking to a beautiful women, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be sexual, think James Bond.
- Don’t keep calling – This is the classic. If you call her and talk to her, leave a message on her machine or whatever and the ball is now in her court, don’t keep hitting balls at her, she’ll leave the court.
- Keep your eyes under control – Don’t keep looking at every single women that walks by, you run the risk of looking like a creep in general.
- Self – This is the main thing that must be done. You have to care about yourself more than finding someone to hook up with. Don’t go out with intentions of hooking up with some beautiful woman, go out to have fun. Even when you see that beautiful woman, don’t talk to her with the impression that you want to sleep with this woman, talk to her because you think it would be fun to talk to her. If you can get your head around this approach and master it, then all the other things will line up for you.
